As long as you agree not to shit on other people's identities, which should be a given.

> agree not to shit on other people's identities

I believe you mean, "agree with me on gender and sexuality". When you take away the tendentious wording, it's a lot less clear that it "should be a given."

"Peoples identities" is a relatively new concept, and certainly still a political topic. Do you really not see the political undertones?

What if it's a false identity?